This post is a response to a discussion on LinkedIn at http://www.linkedin.com/groupAnswers?viewQuestionAndAnswers=&discussionID=9267732&gid=67134&trk=EML_anet_qa_ttle-cnhOon0JumNFomgJt7dBpSBA in which the discussion was about predators seeking out children through search profiles on social networking sites…
Protect your kids be learning more below from my response in that thread.
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It has been my experience in law enforcement that what you wrote about is true.
Parents, listen up….
Bad people (predators) will comb through social networking profiles looking for information that suits their desire and will work with or expand on that information to groom a child. For example, type in your home telephone number with the area code into Google with the hyphens, and again without the hyphens, and see what you get. Also, Google your child’s name, especially if they are into sports. predators do as much.
Also, predators will use search fields to refine what they are looking for, it is easier than reading through profiles. With a little bit of information a predator can begin to watch open chats to glean more information, or use seemingly innocuous profile information of a target child to refine the target (match up the name of a school in a profile to a geographic region, then do a last name search in a phone book or public records within that region). A predator will then track the target child by following them in various social networking sites, and/or engage them in a chat through that site or other similar online service to further the grooming (chats or online contact) or collection of information.
My law enforcement experience allowed me to pose undercover as a child and be groomed and arrest predators. I would like to reveal more here to parents about how they work but for two reasons I won’t, 1. because I don’t want predators out there to come learn it, and 2. because law enforcement relies on predator conduct to catch them. Suffice it to say that with a bit of computer savvy and a small bit of information a predator can move from having a little bit of information about a child to being able to learn where that child lives or goes to school and find them in the real world. (think map point and Google earth, recall the Google search of your phone #)
Generally these travelers and groomers don’t snatch the child right off the street because they want a relationship with them. They want the child to be a willing partner. The predator wants to arrange a meeting with them (this is real bad and should be prevented by all means). The predator uses the info to maintain a regular communications relationship online with the child so that if or when an attempt to meet is arranged within that communication, the childs defenses are down as the child has been lied to and believes this person is an acquaintance or friend.
Here’s the bottom line, there needs to be a much larger role of parental supervision in matters involving a child online, and there is no need for a child in a social networking environment to have any profile of any kind that reveals personal information.
And parents…. understand that some of your kids are maintaining more than one social networking presence; although they may show you their Facebook or Myspace account for your approval, there is likely to be one they don’t show you and that one is the problem.
Listen, if a predator learns how to find a child, or the home phone number, or anything that can lead them to the area or place where the child lives and goes to school, you and your home have been compromised, it affects the safety of the whole family..
Solution: begin a much more restrictive policy in your home about being given all passwords and usernames to online services that require them. If you do not get compliance from your child then password protect the operating system so the machine will not boot up for your child until you enter it for them, or until they give you all passwords and usernames. Maintain and update that list!
And feel free to log on as your child and see who says what, that can be quite revealing.
Thanks for reading,
Kevin Owens
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